6 Ways to Help Her Have Orgasms
By following these steps, you’re not just giving her more than one orgasm—you’re creating a deeper connection and giving her an experience she’ll never forget. As you can see from the illustration above, you should insert your index and middle finger inside her. The inserted fingers should be slightly curled up, providing pressure to her G-spot area.
As she gets aroused and horny her Skene’s gland will start to swell and fill up with fluid (this is fluid that she ejaculates when she squirts). I covered her vaginal anatomy in-depth in the Pussy Eating Guide, check it out now if there are any parts of her body you’re unsure about. Here are a few of those most frequently asked questions about squirting during sex. Women squirt when they are in the right state of mind. Regardless of your Superman techniques, if you do not address emotional blockages, she will not squirt. To reach her G-spot how do you squirt, form the Spiderman grip (as if Spiderman is shooting his webs) curve your fingers upward inside her, and put pressure on her G-Spot.
Squirting, also known as ‘female ejaculation,’ isn’t necessarily what you see in porn. Female ejaculate is when the urethral sponge (G-spot or Skene’s gland) becomes highly aroused and fills up with fluid. The fluid inside the urethral sponge that leaves the body is what’s called squirting.
The clitoral hood folds over the clit to protect it. Some women are so sensitive that they prefer their clit to be stimulated through the clitoral hood, while other women like direct clit stimulation. The clit can be really sensitive for some women, especially when un-aroused so it’s a good idea to build up from indirect stimulation towards direct stimulation over time. If you feel confident applying any of the techniques because you know exactly where and how to do them, she will also feel confident and relaxed.
Unlike peeing, squirting happens involuntarily when the G-spot is stimulated. So, if you want to make a girl squirt, you need to massage her G-spot. Squirting often happens as a result of a G-spot orgasm, although not always. Squirting and peeing are similar because the fluid comes out from the same place, which is her urethra. When she squirts, it’s usually a small amount of prostatic fluid—sometimes so little that you might not notice a difference between squirting and her natural lubrication. But for some women, the amount of liquid can be much larger, and it might include fluid from the bladder.
Take a tip from tantric practitioners and sit across from your partner and look deeply into their eyes (a huge challenge for most people at first). Savor the experience of breathing in unison, while tuning into the sensations in your body as you feel the breath move in and out. Breathing techniques that activate your pelvic floor can help build heat. Start with gentle, rhythmic motions, inserting one finger while stimulating her clitoris.
With a finger or your tongue, begin giving her clitorial stimulation to edge her closer to an orgasm. This heightened state of arousal is a pivotal feature of squirting as it helps build her excitement toward the final release. When some women orgasm, there is the fluid released from their Skene’s glands, which are the glands that surround the female G-spot, causing them to ‘squirt’. It’s also important to note that squirting is not necessarily a sign of a “better” orgasm or sexual experience.
I believe that every woman can learn to squirt assuming she has the necessary physical attributes. That is, a functioning bladder, Skene’s glands, and urethra. Squirting fluid is a combination of urine and fluid from the Skene’s glands which is ejected—often forcefully—from the urethra. Female ejaculation is only fluid from the Skene’s glands and it’s often ejected less forcefully, in a trickle or drip. Oh, and by the way, squirting is also different from female ejaculation. I’m here to tell you that while squirting fluids do contain urine, it’s not the same as urination.